Aah, finally! You want to get married too. Apparently you've met a soul mate. But, before you step in there, there are some things to think about. First, says sociologist Mary Laner :
1. Check the level of your expectations.
If expectations were too high, marriage or your spouse will fail to meet at one point. And, if that happens, the odds of marital failure is also bigger. Because of that, try to think of the things below before the next ring wearing 'magic' is.
2. Are you old enough?
That is, if you are mature enough to marry, both physically and mentally? What ever happened in your life, which probably will affect the marriage life later? Are the ups and downs of life you will be able to help you think big? Have you overcome the problem, especially in cooperation with others?
3. Childhood you happy?
How do you feel when a small - time to develop self-esteem? If not, do you acquire it as adults? Your parents happy marriage? What did you learn from your parents marriage? Make a list of positive and negative.
4. You have enough money?
This question is very relevant. Consider whether you have enough money to form a marriage, or at least to start.
5. What is your educational background?
People with graduate education levels generally have an average divorce rate is lower than those with low education. Although, the highest divorce rates are found also in those with extremely well-educated and poorly educated.
6. Do you have a high sense of competition?
This is linked to the settlement of problems that require cooperation. If you love to compete, it could be you will make your marriage as an arena for the next competition.
7. How long do you know your bride is not just a time,
but what ever experienced together. How long have you been dating and what happens in the relationship? How much difference in your environment with him, whether it be family, school, or work?
8. Like what you really are?
It is important to know who you are genuine. This is to identify potential conflicts, for example, differences in religion or character. You should be able to predict what that will be caused by differences in background, goals, aspirations, values, and beliefs.
9. Do you live together before marriage?
According to the research, those who live with a smaller commitment to the institution of marriage, of long-term planning, even against each other.
10. Has anyone ever divorced before?
Those who had been divorced believed that they would not repeat the same mistakes. In fact, that many errors occur as well. Facts prove that, the failure of second marriages is higher than the first.
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