Ever hear song That's what friends are for, Dionne Warwick who sung it? Lyrics of songs that were once very popular in the 80's it was, I think it fitting to describe how important a friendship.
It is not just a friend to confide in friends, hanging out friends, but also our friend in all situations, and bad. No wonder, so important, then the price of friendship is not negotiable. Never even replaceable.
That is why not a few people who claim to establish a friendship that is difficult, let alone build a friendship that is believed more viscous element that proximity. In fact, their efforts and initiative in building friendships, can not be said to be arbitrary. Not just a phone call or invite diligent playing into a boarding house, but there is also to imaging time in such a way to get Japanese language course together. If so, where lies fault?
Perhaps no one is wrong. But, to get a true friend indeed need to be patient. The most important thing is not obtrude. Let the seeds emerge and grow together naturally. There is also a good idea to hold on to the philosophy To have a friend, be a friend. That is, if you want to get a friend, you must be a friend of that person.
In addition to holding on to that philosophy, in order to obtain a solid friendship quality, you can follow the following steps:
1. Be yourself.
It is not just a friend to confide in friends, hanging out friends, but also our friend in all situations, and bad. No wonder, so important, then the price of friendship is not negotiable. Never even replaceable.
That is why not a few people who claim to establish a friendship that is difficult, let alone build a friendship that is believed more viscous element that proximity. In fact, their efforts and initiative in building friendships, can not be said to be arbitrary. Not just a phone call or invite diligent playing into a boarding house, but there is also to imaging time in such a way to get Japanese language course together. If so, where lies fault?
Perhaps no one is wrong. But, to get a true friend indeed need to be patient. The most important thing is not obtrude. Let the seeds emerge and grow together naturally. There is also a good idea to hold on to the philosophy To have a friend, be a friend. That is, if you want to get a friend, you must be a friend of that person.
In addition to holding on to that philosophy, in order to obtain a solid friendship quality, you can follow the following steps:
1. Be yourself.
If you believe yourself worthy enough for a friendship, then the attitude and behavior will be seen from all the things you do. Well, many people who feel comfortable and positive thinking when making friends with those who have self-confidence is good enough.
2. Loyal.
2. Loyal.
Loyal nature is one of the main pillars of a solid friendship. How does. You certainly want to be trusted and can trust your friend is not it? You would also want to keep your best friend with you when you're in trouble, and vice versa. For that it takes the name suggests a sense of loyalty.
3. No anti-criticism.
3. No anti-criticism.
Friend who actually said is that they are not only diligent praise but also likes to give positive criticism. For that you do not need anti with their criticism because after all you aim for the good nor is it?
4. Lightweight hand.
4. Lightweight hand.
Your friend will really appreciate all the kindness and help that you provide. Especially if you do it with sincerity, no-frills thing and without having requested it.
5. Fair-minded.
5. Fair-minded.
As a friend, would be nice if you examine a common problem from different angles. The way it probably would be faster to solve the problems.
6. Want to hear.
6. Want to hear.
In a friendship, you should not just home to hear her vent, but try to pay attention and do not monopolize the conversation.
7. Do not use your friend as a personal adviser.
7. Do not use your friend as a personal adviser.
Why? A little bit, vent, make sure you become friends of boring. Another case when you have to ask your friend if she would listen to your problems.
8. Share happiness with friends.
8. Share happiness with friends.
Do not just vent any time you remember a friend, but time also need to be happy again.
9. Do not forget your friends birthday.
9. Do not forget your friends birthday.
Given the special days of your friends is a necessity. Send a card or flowers, to show that you are worth big companions.
10. Show that you are thinking of him when you're not with him.
10. Show that you are thinking of him when you're not with him.
The way all kinds, can send cards, e-mail, SMS, or leave a message on his phone, if not met. Or, you can also send articles from the magazine that she likes
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