Said the man, whose name was just a little friend. Which many are acquaintances. How to improve relationships - from merely acquaintances into friends?
The key word is 'need time'. But consider the 10 tips below:
1. Show interest and curiosity
The key word is 'need time'. But consider the 10 tips below:
1. Show interest and curiosity
Ask kindly about his family, his work life, hobbies, and things that are personal. Of course, if the atmosphere is allowed to ask questions like this.
2. Meet invitation
Perhaps you are busy, but try to fulfill the invitation. If you do not come every time you are invited, then he will think twice to put you into the next invite list. Stay away from words like, "I want to, but ..."
3. Do not gossip about someone you know it
Because, if one day he knew you were talking about him, let alone the bad ones, then the friendship would never have existed.
4. Remember him on special days
You can send congratulations on the day of her birthday. Sending a holiday card, or congratulations if you listen he was promoted.
5. Reverse phone
Not only when he called and you are not there. But also, if he ever called, then occasionally you have to call him.
6. Take time to communicate
Could over the phone, get-together in one place, or would be better if you have a specific schedule to meet with acquaintances.
7. Create new things
New things through you can create new topics or activities. When you have something to share, do it. This will make her feel special.
8. Do not exaggerate your own friends
Many people make the mistake of accidentally, by exaggerating his own friends. This will make your new acquaintance hesitant to approach. For, as if you give a red light because "You are not comparable with them".
9.Consider what is most exciting of these relationships
Some people feel that with the A you can exchange ideas, with the B you can laugh and feel 'loose', with the C you feel inspired, and so on. Examine what is most pleasing to your relationship, and develop it.
10. Making friends takes sacrifice
That is, if you only fulfill themselves in friendships with new acquaintances, he would disappear. You should pay attention to his desire to be balanced.
10. Making friends takes sacrifice
That is, if you only fulfill themselves in friendships with new acquaintances, he would disappear. You should pay attention to his desire to be balanced.
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