Although we assume the mother-in-law is our parents as well, however in your heart must be admitted that he still others, not our real parents. Therefore, it was more difficult to resolve the conflict completely. Your relationship with the in-laws were so distracted and distant. Well, here's tips to bring your relationship with him again.
1. Spend time with in-laws.
If you can not go with the family, at least allow her husband to visit her birth mother. In-laws will be happy because you pay attention to it and you are willing to "share" for her husband.
2. If by chance you have the same hobby,
do activities together. If not, you can get him to go and learn to cook from her husband's favorite mother-in-law so as to make feel cared for.
3. Do not hesitate to ask for help because often times it makes the mother-in-law feel "considered to be a person".
You can go to the doctor asked him to accompany the child, pick up school children, shopping at the supermarket, and others. But please avoid asking things that are heavy for his age.
4. To be fair, both to the mother-in-law, as well as the biological mother.
When you buy batik cloth for your mom as a souvenir, also mother-in-law bought the same quality. "
5. Always think positively about the mother-in-law,
Such a big concern when you got pregnant and gave birth, also willing to keep his grandson who was sick when you're busy.
6. Criticizing the mother-in-law in front of your husband.
However, he remains his biological mother. Negative words about her birth mother could make the offended husband. Talk with an adult attitude and be wise.
7. If you're upset at the mother-in-law,
try to defuse emotions and remain calm.
8. "The fire is not rewarded with fire".
That is, if he was criticizing or scolding hot, you better be quiet and be patient. Parents tend to be more talkative and emotional. If you always stay positive, after a long time her mother-in-law will be soft.
9. Life would be easier if from the beginning of the husband has set strict boundaries between herself and her birth mother.
Insist on a husband and wife that the child is now a priority so that their interests must come first and what things are allowed and not mother-in-law intervened.
10. If the mother-in-law had gone too far to interfere even often angry and say to you, it's time to talk seriously of six eyes.
When the husband reprimanded necessary because generally the mother-in-law will not hurt themselves when reprimanded child.
1. Spend time with in-laws.
If you can not go with the family, at least allow her husband to visit her birth mother. In-laws will be happy because you pay attention to it and you are willing to "share" for her husband.
2. If by chance you have the same hobby,
do activities together. If not, you can get him to go and learn to cook from her husband's favorite mother-in-law so as to make feel cared for.
3. Do not hesitate to ask for help because often times it makes the mother-in-law feel "considered to be a person".
You can go to the doctor asked him to accompany the child, pick up school children, shopping at the supermarket, and others. But please avoid asking things that are heavy for his age.
4. To be fair, both to the mother-in-law, as well as the biological mother.
When you buy batik cloth for your mom as a souvenir, also mother-in-law bought the same quality. "
5. Always think positively about the mother-in-law,
Such a big concern when you got pregnant and gave birth, also willing to keep his grandson who was sick when you're busy.
6. Criticizing the mother-in-law in front of your husband.
However, he remains his biological mother. Negative words about her birth mother could make the offended husband. Talk with an adult attitude and be wise.
7. If you're upset at the mother-in-law,
try to defuse emotions and remain calm.
8. "The fire is not rewarded with fire".
That is, if he was criticizing or scolding hot, you better be quiet and be patient. Parents tend to be more talkative and emotional. If you always stay positive, after a long time her mother-in-law will be soft.
9. Life would be easier if from the beginning of the husband has set strict boundaries between herself and her birth mother.
Insist on a husband and wife that the child is now a priority so that their interests must come first and what things are allowed and not mother-in-law intervened.
10. If the mother-in-law had gone too far to interfere even often angry and say to you, it's time to talk seriously of six eyes.
When the husband reprimanded necessary because generally the mother-in-law will not hurt themselves when reprimanded child.
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